Vatican publishes 2024 letter prohibiting formal blessings for homosexual couples in Germany
Vatican issued a letter on May 4 2026, dated Nov 18 2024, rejecting German bishops’ proposal for formal blessings of same‑sex couples. The letter, signed by Cardinal Víctor Manuel Fernández, warns that such blessings could be seen as legitimizing unions contrary to Church doctrine. It responds to a German “vademecum” drafted in Oct 2024 that aimed to give priests a ritual guide for blessings of couples who love each other. The decision follows the 2023 DDF document Fiducia Supplicans, which addressed pastoral realities in Germany.
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The Vatican has made public a 2024 letter from the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith that rejects any ritualized blessing for same‑sex couples in Germany, a stance reaffirmed by Pope Leo XIV and currently being discussed with German bishops, while the Holy See cautions against punitive measures and seeks a peaceful resolution.
The Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith issued a letter dated 18 November 2024, released on 4 May 2026, signed by Cardinal Víctor Manuel Fernández.
It rejects a German “vademecum” that proposes a formal ritual for “Blessings for Couples Who Love Each Other,” stating such a rite would legitimize unions contrary to the 2023 document Fiducia Supplicans 1 2.
The letter was addressed to Bishop Stephan Ackermann of Trier and, through him, to the entire German episcopate.
The Vatican published the letter now because it had begun circulating online and caused confusion about its status 1.
During his return flight from an African pilgrimage, Pope Leo XIV told journalists on 23 April 2026 that the Holy See “does not agree with the formal blessing of homosexual couples” 1.
He emphasized that the Church’s unity should not hinge on sexual matters and warned that formal blessings could create greater disunity 1.
The Pope reiterated that general blessings after Mass remain permissible for all people, echoing his predecessor’s “Tutti, tutti, tutti” 1.
Cardinal Pietro Parolin, Secretary of State, said on 6 May 2026 that it is “premature” to discuss sanctions against German bishops who have begun formalizing same‑sex blessings in some dioceses 3 4.
Parolin expressed hope that the issue can be resolved peacefully and did not rule out future Vatican intervention 3 4.
He referenced the same 2024 DDF letter and Pope Leo XIV’s recent comments as the backdrop for continued talks 3 4.
Fiducia Supplicans (2023) opened the possibility of blessings for couples “in irregular situations” or of the same sex, but expressly prohibited a precise liturgical form or symbols of marriage 1 2.
African bishops collectively rejected the 2023 document, seeking clarification from the Pope, and Eastern Catholic leaders noted it did not apply to their churches 1.
The German “vademecum” was seen as attempting to create a formal rite, prompting the Vatican’s 2024 rejection 1 2.
Parolin also mentioned an upcoming meeting between Pope Leo XIV and U.S. Secretary of State Marco Rubio, and referenced President Donald Trump’s criticisms of the Pope, describing the attacks as “strange” 3 4.
He reiterated the Holy See’s longstanding commitment to nuclear disarmament during the same remarks 3 4.*
Investigate Church doctrine on blessing same‑sex unions
The Church’s doctrine holds two ideas together: (1) marriage is exclusively the union of a man and a woman, and (2) the Church can still offer pastoral care, including certain kinds of blessings, without treating same-sex “unions” as if they were marriage or as if God approves the sexual union as such.
The dicastery’s 2024 explanation of Fiducia supplicans states that the declaration “remains firm on the traditional doctrine of the Church about marriage” and defines marriage as the “exclusive, stable, and indissoluble union between a man and a woman, naturally open to the generation of children.”
From this follows the Church’s consistent concern: blessings must not create confusion between marriage and relationships that contradict the Church’s understanding of marriage and sexuality.
In 2021, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith issued a responsum (a formal doctrinal reply to a dubium) answering the question directly:
“Does the Church have the power to give the blessing to unions of persons of the same sex? – Negative.”
The responsum grounds the answer in how blessings relate to sacraments and sacramentals. It explains that sacramentals are sacred signs that “prepare us to receive grace” and that blessings are meant to be objectively ordered to God’s plan.
It then states that therefore:
“it is not licit to impart a blessing on relationships, or partnerships… that involve sexual activity outside of marriage… as is the case of the unions between persons of the same sex.”
The document acknowledges that some relationships contain elements (e.g., friendship, sincerity, loyalty) that can be valued, but says they do not make the relationship legitimate as an object of ecclesial blessing:
“The presence in such relationships of positive elements… cannot justify these relationships and render them legitimate objects of an ecclesial blessing.”
The responsum also argues that a blessing of same-sex unions would imitate the nuptial (marriage) blessing—while there are “absolutely no grounds” to treat them as analogous to God’s plan for marriage.
The 2021 responsum explicitly separates blessing persons from blessing unions. It says the answer does not preclude blessings for individuals with same-sex inclinations, provided they manifest a will to live according to God’s revealed plans as taught by the Church.
It also makes clear what would be illicit: a blessing that would “approve and encourage a choice and a way of life” that cannot be recognized as objectively ordered to God’s plan.
In December 2023, Fiducia supplicans addressed the question of blessings for same-sex couples as part of a broader teaching on the pastoral meaning of blessings. The accompanying doctrinal framing is explicit:
So the document’s aim is not to authorize a “marriage-like” rite. Instead, it emphasizes a distinction between types of blessings.
The 2024 press release explains the “real novelty” of Fiducia supplicans as the invitation to distinguish two forms of blessing:
“liturgical or ritualized” and “spontaneous or pastoral”
The presentation to Fiducia supplicans states that one can understand the possibility of blessings for same-sex couples without changing doctrine, because it does not involve “officially validating their status” or changing the Church’s perennial teaching on marriage.
The Dicastery’s 2024 press release gives concrete interpretive guardrails. It states that the declaration contains a proposal for short, simple pastoral blessings of couples in irregular situations—and stresses these are:
It adds that bishops may require additional local discernment and different modes of implementation, but the path cannot be treated as entirely dismissed.
Also, the same press release ties this to the meaning of non-ritualized pastoral blessings:
they are “not a consecration of the person nor of the couple…,” “not a justification of all their actions,” and “not an endorsement of the life that they lead.”
Putting the texts together, the Church’s doctrine can be stated as follows:
If you want the clearest bottom line from these documents: the Church rejects “marriage-like” blessing of same-sex unions, while still allowing certain pastoral blessings that explicitly avoid approving or justifying the union as if it were marriage.